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It’s hard to make sense of what has happened in Central Texas over the past week. The magnitude of the loss from the July 4th flooding is nearly incomprehensible. For many of us, this region is not just a place on a map—it’s part of our story, part of who we are.
I feel those ties deeply. I began spending my summers along the Guadalupe River when I was a freshman in high school, and for the next six years, I returned again and again—first as a camper, then as a counselor—not far from Camp Mystic. Camp taught me what it meant to grow up. It offered lessons in maturity, responsibility, and leadership, and it built a sense of confidence in me that I carried into adulthood. Most importantly, it gave me friendships that have endured for decades. I was shaped there—by the beauty of the hills, the strength of the river, and the community that came alive each summer.
I was there in the summer of 1987 when another devastating flood struck, one that took the lives of teenagers in Comfort, Texas, as their bus was swept away in rising waters. That memory never left me. I know how quickly the Guadalupe can shift from peaceful to perilous. I also know how tightly this land can hold onto our hearts.
The devastation we’re seeing now will take years to process—individually, as families, and as a community. But in the early days of grief and confusion, there are some things that can help us stay grounded and present. Whether you’re struggling personally, supporting others, or trying to help your children make sense of this tragedy, here are a few things to keep in mind:
Grief shows up in many ways—sadness, anger, guilt, helplessness. All of it is valid. Giving language to those feelings—out loud, in a journal, or in conversation—can help ease the weight just a little.
It’s natural to want to stay informed, but constant exposure to distressing news can overwhelm our nervous systems. Give yourself permission to step away when needed.
Community is essential in times like these. Check in with others who may be affected—friends, family, former campmates. Reminding each other that you’re not alone is a powerful form of healing.
Children are perceptive. They often know something is wrong, even if they don’t understand the details. Use simple, clear language to explain what’s happened, and reassure them that they are safe and loved.
Lighting a candle, placing a river stone in your yard, or simply sitting in silence can be meaningful ways to honor those lost and express what words can't.
Grief is physical. Drink water, rest when you can, go for a walk. These small acts of care can help regulate your emotions and keep you grounded.
The Central Texas Hill Country is a place of both stunning beauty and deep vulnerability. Those of us who know it well carry that duality with us. As we begin to move through the heartbreak of this moment, may we do so with compassion—for ourselves, for our children, and for our communities.
RPC stands with you during this time of profound loss and is here to support you as you navigate your grief. We will carry this loss together. And we will carry each other.
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